5 Things No One Taught You About Your Pleasure — But Should Have
1. Your Clitoris Is the Main Character
Here’s a stat that might surprise you (unless you’ve lived it): According to the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, only 18% of women orgasm from penetration alone.
That means the clitoris — not the vagina — is where most of the magic happens.
The clitoris has 8,000+ nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and exists solely for pleasure. Yet, most sex ed skips right over it. No wonder so many women feel like something’s missing.
If your toy or partner isn’t showing the clit some love, it’s time to switch things up.
2. Mood Matters More Than You Think 💡
Pleasure isn’t just physical — it’s mental.
Stress, shame, and even your to-do list can block arousal more than you realize. In fact, research from the Kinsey Institute shows that mental distractions are one of the biggest reasons women struggle to reach orgasm.
The solution? Slower moments. A safe environment. A mindset of play, not pressure.
Sometimes pleasure starts with turning off your brain before turning on your body.
3. You Deserve Toys That Match Your Body 🍬
You don’t need 30 modes or a Bluetooth app that connects to your playlist. You need something that fits.
Most mainstream toys are built around trends — not anatomy. That’s why many women end up with gadgets that vibrate but don’t really satisfy.
At Lustford Candy Shop, our designs like Buzzini, Bunny Pop, and Midnight Pop are shaped around how real people experience pleasure.
External-first designs that prioritize the clitoris
Curved shapes that hug the body
Soft-touch silicone that feels natural, not clinical
Because comfort is sexy.
4. Fantasies Are Normal (And Helpful) 🧠
Whether they involve a celebrity crush or something a little spicier, your imagination is not something to be ashamed of.
Studies from Rutgers University show that sexual fantasies activate the same pleasure centers in the brain as physical touch.
That means your mind isn’t a distraction — it’s part of the experience. Lean into it.
5. You’re Not Too Much. You’ve Just Been Understimulated ✨
If you’ve ever been told you’re too sensitive, take too long, or want "too much," here’s your permission slip to call B.S.
More often than not, it’s not you — it’s the approach.
Pleasure is personal. And when it’s tailored to your rhythm, your body, and your vibe? You go from “meh” to mind-blown.
Final Sweet Thought 🍬
No one gave you a manual for your pleasure. But now you have something better: curiosity.
So ask questions. Try new things. Share this with your friends (because chances are, they weren’t taught this either).
And most importantly?
Make your pleasure a priority.
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