The Orgasm Gap Is Real — and Here’s How Women Are Closing It
Let’s Talk About the (Not-So-Secret) Secret We’ve heard the jokes. We’ve seen the memes. But behind the punchlines is a truth that deserves more than eye-rolls:
According to a study published in The Archives of Sexual Behavior, 95% of heterosexual men say they usually orgasm during sex, compared to only 65% of heterosexual women. That’s a 30% pleasure gap.
Let that sink in.
It’s not because women are less capable of pleasure. It’s not because they need more time, or more foreplay, or some complicated combination lock.
It’s because most sexual experiences — and sadly, many products — are designed around male pleasure first.
The Rise of the Empowered Bedroom Thankfully, things are changing.
A growing wave of women are:
Speaking up about what they want
Ditching shame-based silence for curiosity
Exploring toys that actually understand their anatomy
And surprise, surprise: the results are mind-blowing.
At Lustford Candy Shop, we see it daily — shoppers trading in their buzz-heavy "basics" for designs made to hit the actual sweet spots. Products like:
Mini Pop — tiny but targeted, built for external stimulation (where 80%+ of women climax)
Adventure Curve — curved and crafted to hug your body with precision
Bunny Pop — because ears aren’t just cute, they’re strategic
Why This Matters Closing the orgasm gap isn’t just about climax — it’s about:
Feeling seen in the bedroom
Taking back control of your own pleasure
Rewriting the story that "he finishes, she fakes"
Because here’s the thing:
When women feel good, confident, and connected — everybody wins.
How You Can Start Closing the Gap Today:
Get Curious: What actually feels good for you? Explore slowly, without pressure.
Try a Toy Built for You: Aim for designs focused on clitoral, external, or blended stimulation.
Talk About It: With your partner. With your friends. Shame shrinks when we share.
Take Our Quiz: Find your perfect match in under 60 seconds with our [Sweet Match Quiz].
One Orgasm at a Time You deserve more than just going through the motions. You deserve the real thing — as often as you want it.
Because pleasure? It's not a luxury. It's your right.
Let’s close the gap together.
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